Question:

what do I do if my boyfriend is a HORRIBLE kisser. I'm his first girlfriend and he sucks at kissing sooo much. he knows though, its not like I keep it a secret. and he doesn't get offended. I just tell him what he can do better but he just, still sucks. lol idk what to do because making out with him isnt even fun. we've been dating for 8 months.

Asked By: Anonymous

Answer:

relationships aren’t all about making out and stuff…

if he knows he is bad then just giggle about it, laugh about it. 

don’t just break up with him if he’s a bad kisser

Question:

There's a guy that I liked for 2 weeks about 1 month ago. He started liking me back. At first, I thought it was really nice that he always talked to me and walked with me to class but now its just really clingy and annoying. I stopped liking him because of this. He butts into every conversation I have and won't leave me alone. He is a good friend of mine so I dont want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to lead him on by talking to him a lot, but I don't want to ignore him because thats mean.

Asked By: Anonymous

Answer:

aww! You have to look on the bright side with this!:) Some guys do that because they just really like you and want you to know it. Let him off easy and tell him how clingy he can get. If you tell him you need space, he will def give it to you. If he doesn’t, come back to us and tell us. Do you still like him tho? 

Question:

I like this Junior (and I'm a freshman) and he just got out of a relationship with a senior. He's giving me major signs that he likes me and always comes up to me to talk and we share musical interests and I always catch him looking my way. But the senior that dumped him is said to look so much like me, they call us twins. I can't tell whether he actually likes me or is just having left over feelings for the other girl. Should I make a move or just forget about him?

Asked By: Anonymous

Answer:

make a move!:) age is just a number right?;) it sounds like he is into you! make a move…he def seems approachable :)

Question:

What does it mean when the guy you have a "thing" with lies to you about being a virgin and believing in abstinence? He told me that, but I know that he's not a virgin. The "first" girl he had sex with, idk there are rumors if he slept with anyone else, said he told her he believed in abstinence to when she was with him. Is he just trying to get sex from me?

Asked By: Anonymous

Answer:

Wow. I would kinda stay away from this guy. It seems like he is very deceiving and will only hurt you in the end. Who knows if he just wants you for that, but he doesn’t sound very truthful.

Question:

I'm bi,i developed a crush on A he reminded me so much of ex, then later on i realized I miss E, so A told his friends that I'm bi, I'm stilled closeted but he isn't but closeted to his parents (A is gay) he called me stupid/stalker and so many mean stuff. i want E back but he told me that i have come out for relationship happen again and i don't want to not yet. later on the week he told me "i can't be with you because you don't confirm to my standard" that made my heart break. idk what do know

Asked By: Anonymous

Answer:

Okay well basically you should forget about these two guys. They are jerks. First of all, take as much time as you need to come to terms with yourself. It’s your choice! But there really isn’t such a thing as a closeted relationship, so I understand where E is coming from. But because you don’t fit his “standard”, you can do way better. I understand how you feel. For the longest time I wanted a relationship so badly I really didn’t care who it was with. But then I realized that if I know this person isn’t right for me why am I setting myself up to get hurt in the end? I know that I’m gonna meet someone special someday. I’m not in a rush to find love, and you shouldn’t be either. It will find you.

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I have a good friend that I'm close to. We tell each other a lot of things and we have insightful talks as well. I think I love him but I really don't want to. He's the type of guy who flirts with like every girl he meets. The only person he doesn't flirt with is me, because we're good friends. Sometimes I think he likes me too, but I probably overthink it. I can't tell if he likes me as a friend or not and I plan to tell him that I like him, but i'm afraid it'll ruin our friendship. help me!

Asked By: aylo1688-deactivated20120822

Answer:

If it’s really killing you inside, then tell him. If the feeling is not mutual, then the worse that can happen is you go back to being friends.

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There are two guys - Kevin and nick. Ok so I've liked nick for a long time and he's never really showed any interest so I've tried to move on though it's been tough. And then I start to get to know Kevin. He's really really nice and he's funny and kinda cute and I kiiinda like him. I found out he likes me and told all of his and my friends I like him because I have a huge mouth. Nick is starting to flirt with me. I'm waaaay more attracted to him than Kevin. What do I do?

Asked By: Anonymous

Answer:

ooo sticky situation…..i think nick sounds better for you. You know now that he did have/has interest in you, he was just shy!! go for him! flirt back!:)

Question:

Hey! So I like this guy and ive known him for a few months now and he seems like a great guy. Hes good friends with my best friend but my friend says not to do anything because of his ex, but I still feel like I should take a chance. I wanna let him know that I like him but dont know how because im pretty shy and not very forward. So how would you go about this without being weird?

Asked By: jacyinwritting

Answer:

DON’T LISTEN TO YOUR FRIEND, GO FOR HIM!!! I’m really shy too, but find something in common!:) Whenever you guys are together do something! giggle, twirl your hair, just make him know you like him!:) 

Question:

Ok so my friend James has this friend Justin that I am interested in but my friend Meagan also likes him. I want to make a move but I don't want to make Meagan mad or make James think I am just using him to get to his friend. How can I make a move?

Asked By: cmc439

Answer:

I think that you should be honest with your friend about your feelings for Justin. If you make a move and she gets pissed, then that anger/tension will be there for a while. And don’t think James would be mad. If he was a good friend he would be trying to help you. Make a move, whatever you are comfortable with. Just make sure she knows before you do.

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So nobody actually knows im bisexual. Nobody at all. Im so scared to come out because I grew up in a christian family and so many of my family members dont agree with it. I have another cousin who is also bi, and I hear everybody talk about him so rudely and act as if they are ashamed of him. im honestly so scared and dont know how to or even tell them the truth. Its got to the point im so scared of telling them that i have considered committing suicide, i dont want to but i dont know what else.

Asked By: Anonymous

Answer:

I know exactly how you feel. It took me a while to come to terms with my sexuality also. Why would you not be yourself if it’s killing you inside? Personally, I think that if you came out to your family they wouldn’t know how to accept it at first but then would come around. I don’t know how a parent who raised you and gave you life wouldn’t still love you based on your sexual preference. And I’m sure you have friends who would still accept you for who you are anyways. It’s certainly not a perfect world. Lord knows I’ve been through shit because of the way people think about my sexuality. But I have found that all that really matters is the people that love you for who you are. I think you should talk to your cousin about this, I think he would be an awesome person to rely on because he has gone through the same things. Don’t ever give up hope! It gets better!